I have a hard time saying "no" to things. I'm a fixer.... of people and processes. And, I'm pretty resilient through that process of fixing (see previous post). [or at least, I think I am] But I can get worn out..... most of which happens because I've let someone or something push through my boundaries. … Continue reading Boundaries are important. Even God has boundaries.
Resilience. Writing that word conjures up quite a few emotions for me. I've been told I have lots of resilience. (Pride and Joy) And, I've been told that I need to "be more resilient". (Anger and Sadness) That latter comment wasn't so long ago. When I heard it, it stung and I had to walk away … Continue reading Resilience building keeps us moving forward.
In John Ortberg's book, Love Beyond Reason, there is an entire chapter devoted to the danger of envy. He likens it to a cancer. Envy starts when we begin comparing ourselves to someone else. We feel discontented or resentful because someone else has 'more' than we do. I've known this cancer. Well. In school. At work. … Continue reading He does not want us to compare ourselves to others. Period.